Guys go gay for pay
Can you have gay sex and still be straight?
We assume that these men are gay, or at the very least bisexual, and simply in denial about their sexuality. However, we now know that one subset of these men—straight men who adore getting paid for such sex—can, indeed, be heterosexual. It is not the sex that turns them on, it is the money! They have eroticized money, and the sense of value they derive from being admired and paid for performing sex acts with men.
I even had one client come into my office and refer to himself as a “cashsexual.” Having cash put into his hand or his PayPal account or Google Wallet, as well as the exhibitionism and accolades he received, turned him on.
In fact, increasingly in gay porn researchers have found straight men who enjoy participating in it. Often, they’re able to strict higher pay for performing because many gay guys are turned on by seeing men straight having gay sex—and gay men are quick to spot them. Then, when the scene is done, the straight man goes home to his wife or girlfriend, and once again immerses himself in the
Their profile photographs usually have muscled torso closeups, or shirtless photographs of themselves, with the head cropped out. Some of them – the more experienced ones – don’t mind showing their faces. Their profile names interpret “paid top” or “hunk top pd” or “hot top pd” or “massgr pd top” or “nothng is 4 free”. Earlier, they would just call their profiles “massage anyone?” or “massager top”, and if you wanted more than an oil rub, you would have to hint at it. They would then tell you how much they charged for a hand profession, a blow job or “full fun”. Most of these men are models and aspiring actors who have washed ashore at Mumbai from different parts of the country — mostly Delhi and Punjab — and require to find a way to sustain their lifestyles. This includes rent, gym memberships, protein supplements, food, conveyance, grooming products, clothes and enough money to party at the right places — all a very expensive business. Many struggling actors and models don’t have degrees to plunge back on, have left their families behind and want to make their glitzy dreams arrive true, only to re
Anewreality show about straight men who have sex with other men for money, titled Broke Straight Boys, is coming to television later this year. Most people don't believe these men are straight at all but gay or bisexual. But the evidence is that many men -- gay, straight and bisexual -- can be sexual with the same sex or the adj sex if money is deeply interested. "The cash gets me hard," these men will often state. Most people, however, think that if a man engages in sex with another man for ay reason, he cannot be straight.
Straight men who have sex with men are punished by the prejudices and stigma attached to the act, with people judging them to be gay when they are not. Anything seen as non-masculine in a man (and gay sex is seen as non-masculine in our culture) is deemed "effeminate" or "gay" and is punishable under patriarchal standards. Straight men even direct this homophobia at themselves for engaging in sexual behavior with other men, and the results can be brutal.
Gay men are often the most critical of these men, believing that they are closeted gay guys who need to com
The straight men doing gay for pay on OnlyFans and JustForFans
In April , year-old Ryan Yule had a “fuck it sort of moment” and joined OnlyFans, the platform that allows him to charge people $15 a month for access to pornographic photos and videos of himself. He had left the military in February and was “tired of being skint”, so began to upload – among other things – videos of himself masturbating. He makes a strong business case for doing so: “I used to have a wank and wouldn’t get paid for it, and now, I earn paid for it.”
Ryan is one of an increasing number of heterosexual men uploading explicit content for their mostly gay subscribers – Ryan tells me that he estimates his subscribers to be “97 per cent” men. Many of the straight men doing so sit between ‘top-lad’ and ‘apex-lad’ – meaning, they perform heterosexuality to its most aesthetic extremes. Their watches are large, swollen biceps tattooed with crying Geishas, and for some reason, they photograph themselves sitting on the bonnets of cars. However, these adult content creators – the OnlyFans lads if you will – are